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The following is excerpted from the Pamphlet "The Black Men's
Baha'i Gathering A Spiritual Transformation" by James A. Williams and
Ted Jefferson, Published by Wayfarer Publications Copyright © 1995
"Every
year for the past eight years, usually during the last week of July, a
group of Baha'i men who are Black have been convening in an isolated
spot in South Carolina. The place is the Louis G. Gregory Baha'i
Institute, a small compound of aging buildings surrounded by a forest
of scrub pines. The Institute hosts a wide range of Baha'i activities
year-round by primarily serves as one the area's most recognized
community service agencies. For these men, however, some of whom have
traveled from as far away as British Columbia, California, and the
Caribbean Islands, this has become a sacred spot, a holy place, a
spiritual home.
These men
come to the Black Men's Baha'i Gathering. The Gathering is not open to
the general public. It is not even open to all Baha'i men who are
Black. Attendees are Black Baha'i men who have talked with Continental
Counselor William Roberts and received an invitation from him to
attend.
How could
the Baha'i Faith, the only universal religion that promotes "the
oneness of mankind," sanction what can be viewed only as a
"segregated" gathering? Its activities are not secret: they consist of
prayer, singing, fellowship, and consultation-things which are
familiar to everyone. What, then, makes it so special? Whatever
happens within the sanctity of that main meeting room, sheltered from
the eyes of an unpredictable world, can only be described as
"wonderful" each time these men come together.
We who
attend are no longer surprised at how this event has evolved into much
more than just a spiritual reunion and a time of fellowship. When we
depart from that spot on Sunday afternoon, after the last prayer is
given and the last song is sung, we are the same men who arrived
earlier in the week, but we are also different. A spiritual
transformation occurs in that hallowed place, a transformation that
some people will say that God, as well as the world, awaits.
...The
first Black Men's Bahá'í Gathering was held at the Residence Inn in
Greensboro, North Carolina, in October 1987. Only twelve men were
there because it was a 'test" Gathering, according to Counselor
Roberts, its shaper and convener, a psychologist by profession. For
years he had wondered why Black men had not made more significant
contribution to the Faith as envisioned by 'Abdu'l-Baha'. He
questioned why there were so few older Baha'i Black men. He also
noticed in Baha'i meetings something that puzzled and then saddened
him: Black men appeared to avoid each other deliberately in order to
seek the company of White Baha'is. In other words, and with a high
degree of predictability, Black Baha'is were trying very hard to
become invisible to each other, especially if non-Black Baha'is were
around. Dr. Roberts used this telling behavior as sufficient reason
for convening the first Black Men's Gathering.
*****
Imagine that you are standing in the middle of an overcrowded room of
Black men. The men are seated in concentric circles around you,
attentive, listening with their ears to your every word, spoken and
unspoken, reading with their eyes the language your body speaks, while
embracing you with their hearts. You have never been to a Gathering
before, and at the request of Dr. Roberts, you are attempting to tell
who you are and why you wanted to come. At first this seems easy
enough, but you can not finish your explanation. Tears flow. You can
not talk and cry at the same time. You could be a teen, a retired,
gray-haired gentleman, or someone in-between. ..No, we won't ask you
personal questions. You may want to share the pain in your life, but
more often than not, we already know it. Aren't we all Black men?
Though living in different cities and towns, don't we all share a
common heritage? The details of your story will be different but what
really matters is that you're now here...with us...together...Yes, we
know you have never been able to trust other Black Men. We didn't
either, at first. But, that's OK. You'll learn. Welcome home. |